From a Mama, Doula, Artist, Ex Makeup Artist, and Forever Makeup Lover
There’s something so freeing about sitting in front of the mirror with no agenda, no event to get ready for, no client waiting, no camera rolling... just me, my brushes, and the rhythmic motions of application.
Makeup has always been a creative outlet for me, but over the years, it’s become much more than that. It’s not just about contour and highlight anymore, it’s about self-care, healing, and play.
Makeup as Art Therapy
As someone who’s both an artist and a birthworker, I live in a world where emotions run deep. Some days, makeup feels like my paintbrush for the soul. I can blend my mood onto my face. A soft pink for peace, a bold lip for confidence, or golden highlighter for pure joy.
When I dip my brush into color, I’m not covering anything up. I’m creating something. I’m giving my emotions a safe, beautiful outlet.
Rediscovering Playfulness
Motherhood and entrepreneurship can easily make life feel serious all the time. There are bills, appointments, school schedules, and somewhere in the middle of that, the fun can fade.
But when I play with makeup, I get to be me again. Not “mom” or “business owner,” but just Milli... curious, creative, and a little experimental. I’ll try a neon liner or a wild lash just to see how it feels. Sometimes it works. Sometimes it doesn’t. Either way, it reminds me that I’m still a woman who deserves to play.
Confidence, But From the Inside Out
People often say makeup gives confidence, but for me, it’s more of a reflection of the confidence I already have. When I sit down to create a look, I’m saying, “I choose myself today.” Even on days when my energy is low or my emotions are heavy, that small act of care can shift everything.
There’s power in seeing yourself as art. Especially as a mom, when your identity is often centered around everyone else.
It’s Not About Perfection
Trying new looks isn’t about chasing trends or impressing anyone. It’s about exploration. Sometimes my eyeliner wings are uneven. Sometimes my foundation shade doesn’t quite match. But that’s okay. Makeup, like life, doesn’t have to be perfect to be beautiful.
The Joy of Self-Expression
Makeup is storytelling. It’s mood. It’s energy. It’s a way to honor my creativity in a few stolen moments between naps, client calls, or family time.
And honestly, that’s what I love most... that in a world where I carry so many roles, I can still take 10 minutes to remind myself that beauty and joy belong to me, too.
Reflection Prompt:
When was the last time you did something just for fun, not for results or validation, but purely for joy?
If it’s been a while, maybe start small. Try a new lipstick, a bold eyeshadow, or something that makes you feel alive again. You deserve that kind of play.
- Milli Femme
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